When you start to whine about your life....

Yesterday was one of those days that reminds me that my life is pretty good no matter how it may seem from time to time.  A 7th grader at Ionia Middle School had to call 911 at 4:30 AM because of an argument between her parents.  When the cops arrived they discovered that her father had shot her mother, her brother, and then killed himself.  It is certainly beyond my imagination how difficult this little girl's life is right now (as of now, both her brother and mother are in serious condition at the hospital).  I was called to the MS on friday morning to cover the classes of one of her teachers.  When you find out that you're working today because three people were shot, it puts things in perspective.
We all tend to be a little myopic about our lives, don't we?  We all have problems, many of them serious, and it really takes a jolt to get us to see beyond ourselves.  None of us are promised a tomorrow, today could be your last day.  Is it worth is to spend this day complaining?  As the Apostle James wrote, "Now listen, you who say, "Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business and make money."  Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.  Instead, you ought to say, "If it is the Lord's will, we will live and do this or that."  Take a realistic look at your life.  Thank God for you many blessings (and tell him of your cares and worries in prayer), and never forget that life is a precious gift, one only our Creator can give.

Thoughts on "The Lovely Bones"

As an alternative education teacher, I'm always on the look-out for books that are high quality that my students will actually read.  Over the years I've had some success (notably with Stephen King's "Eyes of the Dragon") and some flops ("Jurassic Park" and "Runaway Jury" haven't gone over as well as I hoped).  I recently had to pick a new book on short notice (to cover classes for another teacher for a quarter; Get well Angi!).  At Barnes and Noble, I stumbled across "The Lovely Bones" by Alice Sebold.  I'd heard about the movie (Directed by Peter Jackson!!), so I sat down and read a bit to see if I could decide if it would work...
In the end, I'm teaching the book right now (going great, they're into it) and I'd like to just share a few thoughts about it for those of you who may read it or see the movie (Yikes!  Always read the book when you have a choice)

The premise of the book is that the death of Susie (revealed on the 1st page, I'm not spoiling it) is the hole in the lives of her family around which their futures are knit together.  They go through some really rough times, deal with raw emotions; make mistakes; and basically do what people do when life beats them down.  Ultimately, they do find peace; but I can't help but wonder how the story may have been different had there been a religious element to it.  Surely, one of the greatest benefits to being a Christian is the HOPE that we have in Christ.  The ability to look past today's sorrows and know that the future is still in God's hands.  I'm not saying that Christian parents wouldn't have a problem with losing a child (obviously they would), but that Christians have someone to turn to when it seems like we've been abandoned in life.  "I will never leave you nor forsake you"; the words of the Savior have special power for those who cling to them through the storm.

The book also contains a variety of other ways that characters try to cope with their loss (from drugs to sex to rage); all of which ultimately doesn't work {a postive message if you choose to see it}, and it certainly contains an interesting view of what Heaven is {good for conversation starting with teens esp.}.  If it sounds like I'd recommend this book to Christian readers, I would.  It does contain some material that isn't suitable for younger kids (the murder of Susie being #1 on that list, rather graphic, and some sex too later on), but it definately contains material that will generate questions, thoughts, comments; etc.  Our world is in desperate need of answers to the big questions about the meaning and purpose of this life and what happens when it's over.  This book certainly will show the frailty of trying to cope with life alone, the kind of thing that a parent, mentor, or friend could use to help show the healing hand of Christ to someone in need.

The Road Not Taken

How many times in life have you looked back upon a choice that you’ve made and wonder what your life would be like if you had gone down a different path? Maybe it’s a relationship that didn’t work out, a job that you didn’t get, a friendship that ended badly, or that house you bought that turned out to be a money pit. In the modern world we have far more real choices than our ancestors were faced with. Prior to the last few generations most people had no choice in their occupation (nearly all were farmers anyway), didn’t have any say in their spouse (parents made those decisions, the future couple typically had no prior relationship), and rarely moved more than a few miles from where they were born.


As a Christian, new dimensions open up revolving around moral choices, successes and failures, that may haunt us as we strive to be Christ-like. David, the one-time slayer of Goliath and God’s “man after his own heart” (I Samuel 13:14), lived to have such regrets despite his stellar service for God. David chose to commit adultery with Bathsheba, a sin which led him directly to plot the death of her husband Uriah. (II Samuel 11-12) Those choices didn’t keep God from using David after his repentance, but what might have been if this amazing man of God had stayed true to his faith? One of the prayers that I regularly make is that God would use me to do amazing things for his kingdom. In that same light, one of the strongest checks I have on the temptations I face is the knowledge that sin will keep me from making the most of that hope.

It may be interesting to wonder where we would be now if that big promotion had happened, or that first love had lasted, but the true question that will matter in eternity is, “What might I have been able to do for God if I hadn’t…” The Road Not Taken may have been a better one, but the sin not committed will always be the right road.

Faith & Works

I've been preaching my way through the letter of St. James at Palo and it has reminded me that the Church has come a long way in the last 2,000 plus years.  In some ways, we've remained amazingly consistant with what the Apostles and Early Church Fathers intended.  In other ways, we've let inertia and reaction to other Christian groups (Catholics not wanting to emphasize that they aren't Protestans and vice versa; along with countless other such action/reactions) take us in directions that we aren't even fully aware of.
The letter of James has a section in Chapter 2 that focuses on the absolute necessity of keeping Faith & Works (the KJV word for it; deeds, actions, etc.) TOGETHER.  James makes it very clear that he believes that "faith without works is dead"....And yet, in response to the corruption of the Church of the Middle Ages, Martin Luther felt it was necessary to emphasize "sola fide" (faith alone); in response, the Catholic Church was pushed (or pushed itself) even further in the direction of working for salvation.  In both cases, the danger of divorcing Faith from Works was very real (and in some circles remains so today)...Neither vision of Christianity is correct.  We cannot be Christ-like simply by what we believe (Faith alone) and we cannot be justified before God without faith in Christ (Works alone)...Much of the debate and animosity within the Church (universal; that includes Protestant, Orthodox, Catholic) arises from our failure to understand that we've spent the last 500 years emphasizing the two NECESSARY aspects of Christian faith.  We've acted as if the two can be torn apart and get us to Heaven on their own.  In doing so we've lost sight of the warning of James, No man can be justified by works alone, and faith without deeds is dead.

A difficult day in Palo...

Those of you who live around Grand Rapids may have read the front-page article in today's Grand Rapids Press about the house fire at the Veteran's home in Palo on Sunday morning.  This fire was particularly difficult for our congregation at Palo because we have had several visitors from this home over the past year.  One of the two who died was a quiet man named Ray who joined us for worship three or four times.  I never got the chance to learn much about Ray, we talked before church started a bit and I encouraged him (and the others) to come back again afterwards.  Now all we can do is entrust Ray to the mercy of God and pray for whatever family he had.
You never really know how much of an opportunity you will have to minister to those who walk into the church each week.  Some you know are regulars and you have a chance to talk to them each week, but others come only sparingly (sometimes once or twice a year, sometimes regularly for a little while and then not).  As the church's pastor, I make a concerted effort to greet anyone who walks in and try to ensure that they feel welcome; but it's difficult to get past the pleasantries about the weather and such to really find who the visitors really are in a short conversation.  Sadly, we won't get the chance to work on that with Ray.