Sermon Video: Will Esau Forgive Jacob? - Genesis 32-33

As the moment of truth approaches, Jacob prepares to meet his estranged brother with a multi-step plan designed to mollify Esau's anger.  But will it work, or does Esau intend to kill his brother as he vowed twenty years ago?

In the end, it isn't Jacob's planning that makes a difference, but the change in Esau's heart that God wrought.  When Esau sees Jacob he rushes to embrace him (as in the Prodigal Son) with tears.

We have been given the ministry of reconciliation by Jesus, the forgiveness that Esau gave to Jacob reminds us how powerful this task can be.

Sermon Video: Laban Confronts Jacob - Genesis 31:19-15

 

Jacob's choice to abruptly leave with his family and property without even informing Laban prompts Jacob's father-in-law to pursue him.  When Laban catches-up with Jacob he confronts him and both men air their grievances with each other.

In the end, the relationship between Jacob and Laban is beyond repair, especially when both men continue to insist they are in the right.  God intervenes to prevent the situation from ending in violence, but sadly not harming each other is the only thing they will commit to. 

The episode serves as a reminder of the consequences of schemes, deception, and grudges.  For Jacob, it serves as a stark reminder of what might await him when he is confronted by Esau.

Sermon Video: Jacob turns the tables on Laban - Genesis 30:25-31:18

 

In this chapter of his life story, Jacob's relationship with his father-in-law Laban deteriorates, eventually breaking.  Both men are to blame, as both seek to cheat the other.  In the end, Jacob is successful in obtaining most of Laban's wealth, and then leaves with his wives and children to head back to Canaan.

Sermon Video: Leah & Rachel: Sibling rivalry and cultural expectations - Genesis 29:31-30:24

 

In a soap opera worthy long-running tragedy, the family of Jacob is repeatedly convulsed by jealous rivalry between his wives who happen to be sisters.  That this was entirely foreseeable, by both their father Laban and husband Jacob, doesn't make it any less tragic for these women.

In the end, the passage sees Jacob fathering 11 sons with 4 wives, all whilst the sibling rivalry rages and everyone is negatively impacted by going along with cultural expectations.

Sermon Video: The Divergent Paths of Jacob and Esau - Genesis 27:46-28:22

The contrasting narratives in Genesis 27-28 of Esau's wives whom his parents dislike immensely and Jacob's journey to find a wife akin to how Rebekah was sought for Isaac are a reminder to ancient Israel, and to us, that the key difference in the course that any life takes is the role of God.  Both Esau and Jacob were flawed men (the Genesis narrative painting Jacob as significantly worse), but Jacob's path was contained within the promise of God's blessings, Esau's was not.  Why?  Grace.  God's grace.

Sermon Video: Jacob & Esau: Brother vs. Brother - Genesis 25:19-34

As the narrative of Genesis continues, we learn that God's choice to inherit the promise of Abraham and become the Chosen People will rest with only one of Isaac and Rebekah's sons, Jacob instead of Esau.  This isn't because Jacob is better than Esau, in fact, as this episode demonstrates, Jacob is a schemer willing to defraud even his own twin brother.  What is it then?  Grace, God's grace.  

What then do we say about Jacob?  There isn't any reason to like Jacob as Genesis presents him, we may think that Esau is a fool (that's Moses' narrative assessment), but a just because a family member is a fool doesn't mean we have the right to take advantage of him/her.  Ultimately, Jacob will reap what he sows, but it will be a tragic story that didn't need to happen, he could have been a better man, he could have considered his brother above himself.