Help that really helps people

                “Give a man a fish, you’ll feed him for a day, teach a man to fish, and you’ll feed him for a lifetime.”  As someone who has enjoyed fishing over the years, I know I haven’t often been fed by it, but the principle as it applies to the Church’s charity work for the poor is valid.  Whenever we can, we should be eager to help in ways that enable those who receive our help to be able to help themselves in the future.  In things such as disaster relief, the immediate need takes precedence as it should, but if we let it, every need will look like a crisis situation, whether it be a food, shelter, or clothing that we’re helping with, and the cycle of poverty that is at the root of the need will never be addressed.  How can the Church help break the generational poverty that afflicts so many of the people that our charity efforts are aimed at?  Relationships.  The importance of relationships is why the last step of every client helped by Mustard Seed Missions is their referral to a church in their neighborhood whose mission it is to follow up on what we have started.  The Church needs to be the extended support system that is so desperately needed by those struggling with poverty.  If we’re going to build relationships, we need to be prepared to go above and beyond the simpler tasks of filling needs, and embrace along with it the task of building friendships.  Those who are poor need to feel welcome in our churches, and they need to be treated like family.  When this is our attitude, both meeting needs and being a friend, Gospel seeds will surely grow.